"It's not your job to like me; it's mine". Byron Katie

Watch my lips; they never leave my face! Loving one's self is not selfish. Not loving others for who and what they are is the selfish part.

Diagnose your soul. Who are you? What makes you tick? This is loving one's self. You'll be surprised - learning what makes you tick leads to learning what makes others tick bringing you closer not only to them but to yourself as well.

Don't be afraid. There's a wonderful person in there waiting for love!